personnel visit to to ones wrong decition for his futher

I know this is my first blog but i would  not like to give it start with very  emmotional story but some thing which is emmotional but the fact and which is very important for all to learn and decide for their own respective futher

 one one of the shabbath day when i was there in synagauge i come to know through a non-jew man there is a old 96yrs lady who stays in the old age home in my area and when he went to meet her she asked for food to eat here i relaised she is not getting her proper food so i made my mind to meet her any how i talked to few people there some how luckily her son who lives abroad were there in same synagauge to pray and he heard me tlaking about her so there i we met and we decided to go and meet her on sunday that was next day

i with the rabbi of the synagauge went to that old age home where all old people were there and some how fater looking that envoirnment of how and what condition there it is where people who they have to place in this earth i met that lady for whom i was there she was there laying on the bed as if like a serious patient of hospital in emergency room the bed was of same condition she dont know who we were and when we were talking she was not even able to understand us may be is loosing her memory and at age of 96 she is on the same bed for so many years after i took information some from her own son and others in old age home she an iraqi jew lived in the colaba market of those days was from higher class jewish family was happyly married her husband,childrens and thier family later all her people got settled in various other places of world some went to canada,usa,israel and other then it was she the only one living alone at her old age her childrens took her with them but because she spend her whole life in india and was so much used to here she forced them to bring her back immigately later as she was alone staying with servant at her bungloo in colaba

the selfish servant who could had got everything of her after her took away unknowingly of her belonging and kept her in that old age home which is not at all for her when one go there the way she talks,reacts makes us know she is surely not of among all this others when i went there i took some buscits and the way she was eating as if some one is hungry for the whole day may be she is not even given food on time because she herself cannot eat some one need to serve her and atlast how much even they will cair for this lady there are so many for those nurses plus the others are all some how having their own sad ending story of their life her son who pays huge amont for her so that she could atlist get good food and they will give what ever she wish to eat like choclates,buscits,pizza,falafel is some thing which is always and everything keep on asking to eat but that old age home cannot affort to give and those employees who are paid to give may give or some times not she is in such a condition that even is slight move if happens to her the pain she suffers and the horrible vocie made mine body hair to stand and for a munite i was just blank

 so here there is something for us to learn first is this as our every stage of life has important time what we do gets carry forward for the futher luckily she had a family but due to she could not take proper decitions on time or knowingly even after she was not able to understand here it the time for all fo us to know thats the reason we should be with people whom we can understand proper friends,relationships with people who are really cairing for us,making some hting which will help us for our futher like pentions plan,insurance plans and building us in such a way that we could settle ourself and can get adjusted where ever we do this is how we should be

 this is something personnel experience of mine i wanted to share hope it was not much boaring plus this is my first time i am writitng some thing do not farget to give me feeback on my first article of my blog